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Maulana Wafa Haider Khan

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Maulana Wafa Haider Khan

Maulana Wafa Haider khan is a Teacher, Educator and a Scholar of Arabic Linguistics. He has many years of experience in teaching students of Deen and Fiqha. He is currently a Mudarris (Teaching Staff) at Madrasa e Hadi ATFS, Navi Mumbai.

Community and Society

Husband! A True Companion in Joy and Sorrow

Today’s young generation should handle this relationship with emotions, feelings, tolerance, and truth. This relationship is not a temporary happiness, but a sacred covenant for a lifetime

Personality Development

Those who shine like the moon of the night

This narration uses the example of the moon to convey the message that just as the moon hides in the light of day but shines with its light in the darkness, similarly, man should maintain his originality, that is, truth and honesty, instead of merging with the sins and bad tendencies of the world. The example of Imam Hussain (AS) and his companions is given to show that they stood firm against oppression and supported the truth, even if they were alone. The sacrifice of Karbala was called "beauty" because it was a manifestation of Allah's pleasure and truth. At the end, the audience was invited not to blindly follow the world but to live in the light of the Quran and the Ahlul Bayt (AS) so that they can become the light of faith and character in the darkness.

History

When brothers sold their brothers And were sold themselves too!

Genghis Khan deceived the people of Bukhara, dividing them with false promises. Some, driven by greed, betrayed their own brothers and fought alongside the enemy. Once the city was captured, Genghis executed the traitors, calling them untrustworthy. This story warns that those who betray their own will find no loyalty or honor in return.

Personality Development

Failure from a New Perspective

Failure or loss in life is not the end — it could be a doorway to something better. The Quran teaches that what we dislike may actually be good for us. True success lies in trusting Allah’s wisdom, not just in achieving our desires. Align your heart with His will, and find peace in His decisions.

Ladies

How to support your spouse spiritually

These may seem like small gestures, but they carry deep meaning. When shared sincerely, they make your relationship alive, loving, and truly happy.

Ulema ke Jawab

Three Shariah methods of disposing of paper of Quran or holy names

Papers containing Quranic verses or the names of Allah should be disposed of respectfully. Permissible methods include giving them to recycling centers, burying them respectfully, or placing them in flowing water. It is not allowed in Sharia to burn or throw them in the trash. This ruling is agreed upon by major Shia jurists.

Ahadees

Prophetic Hadith: The Seven Commandments of Allah

The Prophet (peace be upon him) was advised by Allah with seven key principles of virtue. These include sincerity, forgiveness, generosity, maintaining ties, and mindful speech. He emphasized that speech should always be filled with God's remembrance. A true believer guards their tongue, reflects in silence, and learns through observation.

Tafheem e Quran

A verse of the Quran, a secret and an experience

Ustad Fatemi Nia (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates a saint’s deep reflection on a Quranic verse about Satan watching us from where we can't see him. The saint has a spiritual experience where Satan appears and challenges him to a debate. After defeating Satan, he realizes Satan’s true aim was simply to waste his time. This reveals the verse’s deeper meaning — that Satan deceives us through our own strengths, like knowledge or worship, if we lack sincerity and insight.

Mushkelat e Zindagi

Sharia Dilemma

This humorous story highlights a newlywed wife who insists on living strictly by Sharia, demanding her rights such as a separate home and exemption from serving in-laws. The husband, overwhelmed, consults a scholar who reminds him that Sharia is about duties and balance—not just rights. When the husband mentions Sharia’s allowance for a second marriage, the wife quickly softens her stance. The message is clear: true Sharia means fairness, responsibility, and harmony in the home.

Personality Development

Mother's Anger or God's Pleasure?

This inspiring story highlights how Dehkhuda, out of devotion to his difficult mother, chose a life of sacrifice, remaining unmarried and childless to serve her. Despite facing emotional and physical hardship, he showed unwavering patience. One night, after a painful incident, he dreamt of divine approval and was gifted immense knowledge. He went on to create timeless scholarly works, proving that sincere service and patience never go unrewarded.

Community and Society

The Marriage of Hur al-Ain and Sheikh Ali; A Strange Miracle of Najaf and Karbala

Sheikh Ali Najaf was a student of religious knowledge who had a deep desire to marry a *houri* (a heavenly maiden). He constantly prayed and sought divine help for this wish. People thought he was crazy, but he remained sincere and committed to his prayer. One night, a woman came to him—she was actually a *houri* sent from paradise. Sheikh Ali married her, and they lived together for seventeen years. In the end, she revealed her true identity and, after Sheikh Ali's death, she returned to paradise.

History

The reason for the name of Arafah(Day of Arafat)

The Day of Arafah, observed on 9th Dhul-Hijjah, is central to Hajj and symbolizes recognition, learning, and divine connection. Its name has various meanings, including knowing Allah, meeting fellow pilgrims, and divine praise by angels. Imam Hussain (AS) offered the profound Supplication of Arafah, filled with gratitude, humility, and spiritual insight. This day teaches us to seek closeness to Allah through worship, reflection, and sincere prayer.

Personality Development

Bid'at and Poverty

This is a true story about a father who wanted to rent empty cartons to fake a large dowry for his daughter’s wedding, as he couldn't afford real items. It highlights the cruel social pressure and harmful traditions like dowry display, which shame and burden the poor. Such practices are considered religiously wrong (bid’ah) and socially unjust, increasing poverty and inequality. Standing up against these traditions is a noble act and a step toward social reform. The core message: relationships need love, not show — abandon harmful customs to protect dignity and humanity.

Personality Development

The Silent Worker and the Secret of Sustenance

This is the story of a hardworking laborer who silently fulfills his responsibilities. He never questions when his salary increases or decreases. He believes that sustenance comes from Allah and changes with the coming or going of people. When his son was born, his sustenance increased; when his mother passed away, it decreased. The lesson is that the true secret lies in patience, gratitude, and contentment.

Personality Development

Stages of Knowledge

The journey of ma'rifah (spiritual knowledge) consists of five stages: First, a sense of longing and restlessness arises in the heart, followed by the pursuit of the light of knowledge. Next, the individual makes a personal commitment to embrace the truth, and throughout the day, they engage in self-observation (meditation). Finally, they review their actions at the end of the day to correct any mistakes. These five stages lead a person toward closeness to Allah and the path of true spiritual understanding.

Personality Development

What is True Perfection?

Walking on water, flying in the air, or covering the earth — all these are external manifestations. The real miracle is when the human heart comes alive. He who becomes the owner of the heart, in reality, becomes a true human being.

Community and Society

Marital relationship – a delicate bond of love and understanding

To nurture and sustain a marital bond, prioritize: acceptance and tolerance of imperfections, the active practice of letting go (forgiveness and releasing grievances), demonstrating consistent kindness and gentleness, cultivating trust while actively resisting unfounded suspicion, and maintaining emotional integrity and goodwill within the partnership. This conscious effort is the cornerstone of a resilient and loving marriage.

Personality Development

Four Tailors and the Secret of True Greatness

Four tailors ran their shops in the same alley, each trying to outshine the others. Three claimed to be the best in the city, country, and world, while the fourth simply wrote, "Best in this alley." His honesty, simplicity, and sincerity won people’s hearts. True success lies not in showmanship, but in being the best within your own circle through truth and hard work.

Masael e Deen

The Secrets of Wudu – From the Blessed Tongue of the Messenger of Allah (PBUH & His Family)

Wudu is not only a physical purification but also a spiritual pledge. Washing the face, hands, wiping the head, and feet each symbolize cleansing past sins and dedicating one’s actions, thoughts, and steps to Allah. It is a reminder that every part of the body should serve only righteousness and divine obedience.

Community and Society

The weight of the dowry is not measured in gold, but in intention

At a nikah ceremony in Quetta, the father-in-law set a modest dowry despite family pressure, prioritizing the groom's financial reality. He chose peace and stability for his daughter over show and tradition. Fifteen years later, the marriage thrives with love, respect, and understanding. This story shows that sincere intentions matter more than wealth in building lasting relationships.

Personality Development

A $20 Deal with Allah — The Reward of a Sincere Heart

Sometimes, all a person needs is sincerity, compassion, and faith in humanity. Everything else is in Allah’s hands — Who turns a small act of kindness into an ocean of mercy. 💖

Personality Development

The Story of the Eagle – Change is Necessary for Life

This story gives a lesson from the life of an eagle, who, at a certain age, goes through a painful process to give itself a new life. The eagle removes its weak beak, claws, and feathers so it can grow new ones and fly again. This painful process lasts for five months, but after that, the eagle lives for another 30 years with new strength. The message of the story is that for growth and survival, we must leave behind old habits and adopt a new way of thinking. The final message is: change or die — the choice is in your hands.

Personality Development

Looking At The Opposite sex

Looking at the opposite sex with desire leads to many harms: it causes inner restlessness, blind love, failed marriages, neglect of worship, conflicts at home, loss of respect, weakening of faith, and falling into sin. Islam teaches that the solution is simple — protect your eyes.

Ahadees

Oh Ali! If only I had no fear that...

This hadith shows the extraordinary rank of Imam Ali (عليه السلام), such that people would have sought blessings even from the dust under his feet. The Prophet ﷺ, however, withheld openly declaring this level of praise, fearing people might exaggerate and elevate Ali as Christians did with Jesus (عليه السلام). It reflects both Ali’s unmatched dignity and the Prophet’s wisdom in protecting the Ummah from deviation.